Sometimes in my work I see women who deeply desire to effect change in their life yet really struggle with the confrontational nature of this and more often than not choose to do nothing and continue to put the needs of others ahead of their own.

These are women, like you and me who are struggling to find a sense of peace, who regularly feel restless, lost and lacking their own personal direction while at the same time know within the heart of who they are the answers lie within them somewhere. Perhaps they even feel the whispers of a deep Soul purpose stirring.

For me as a psychic medium soul coach it breaks my heart to know they have access to the guidance and answers they need, yet still see them not live to their full potential for fear of what others may think or shy away living who they truly are because it does fit in with the needs of other family members. It breaks my heart because this was me too.

Unconsciously when in this mode of egoic behaviour this says you and your happiness is not as important as the needs and happiness of those you care about. It says you and your needs don’t matter and it certainly will only serve to keep you going around in circles never achieving your heart desires. While on the other hand, your Spirit self wants nothing more than for you to find balance with this. It is not a matter of being selfish. Far from it! You will find that in nurturing your needs and choosing you sometimes you’ll be better placed to attend to the needs of your family and will do so much more grateful heart. For you will find that peace and happiness does exist.

When love lacks in your life or when the presence of the Divine Spirit within you is not in the driving force of your soul and therefore your life, you experience a lot of the following.

  • There exists a constant merry go round of struggle
  • Drama seems to your friend with a never ending saga of relationship woes be they friendships, personal or professional
  • There is seemingly a lack of abundance and financial difficulty
  • All amid a constant pressure of never feeling good enough

It was during the journey of writing my second book Wisdom of the Soul: How to live life created with love & inspiration that I came to realize all of this for myself and set about making the necessary changes within me and my life to feel the presence of love more significantly. Essentially I just wanted to be happy and feel loved. And being that I had already had forty seven years of feeling a lack of love it meant that big changes where needed.

As I was writing away yesterday, working on an upcoming Soul Magic guidebook I was interrupted by Spirit wanting to channel the following message through for you. In this instance this insight came to me from the Divine Spirit within me, my Higher self and the God within me if you will. For me this aspect of who we are is the essence of God and therefore has a much value as that of Spirit Guides, Angels and other spiritual beings.

“The Soul desires nothing. The Heart desires everything. The Soul’s plan is God’s way of elevating you to the fullest expression of who you are.

In this likeness of God, love reveals all and all that is needed from you is to follow through with the plan. You must hear its whispers and the job of the Soul is to bring them to you. The yearnings, the intuitions, the calling – all of your Soul speak is the tools you have at the ready to call forth your plan and begin its implementation.

No matter where you are in life, if you feel a lack within the Soul it indicates you are not living your full potential as we see it for you. Yes, there are times when the push and pull or ebb and flow of its pathway is out of your control. Always though you will have an intuitive knowing at the core of your being to know your are on the right path to freedom and are essentially following the right guidance to get you there.

There is however one distinction that needs to be made. Evolution and the unfoldment of the Soul’s plan is not a destination. It is not a creative pathway where by you set out to action your goals, dreams and visions into being.

True Soul magic is the evolution of unfolding the Soul’s plan and the Destiny the being the fullest expression of who you are holds for you. 

This pathway is more eloquently unfolded by the magic of the law of attraction and the pressure points that exist to distinguish life’s markers and turning points.

Align and Attract

Giving yourself the freedom to be who you need to be all the Soul alignment you need. Unfolding this vibration is a journey of magical proportions that is not without its pain and challenges. Yet in the acceptance of who you are there is Love. Not only for yourself but also for others and it is this seemingly irrelevant piece of the puzzle that most forget. 

Life does not exist without love. It is a core factor of who we are from the moment of creation. Humans respond to Love, actually when you think about it so too do most creatures. The Soul responds to Love like it does to nothing else. No other source of energy will bring about the positive effects that Love does for you.”

Creating a shift in your focus is all that is needed for you to bring about small amounts of change that will bring about peace and healing.

Turn your focus away from everything that is happening “to” you. Away from the external pressures of others and the worry about trying to fix all the problems and instead begin to focus more on your heart and your emotions. Amidst the day to day of life, bring your attention to within, how you feel and explore your inner world.

Yes, I acknowledge this may feel a little confronting as you begin delving into who you truly are and living from more than just your to do list. However the benefits can be felt almost immediately as you learn to love and nurture yourself as much as you do everyone around you.

with love & gratitude,


Hi, I’m Kerrie Wearing, a psychic-medium soul coach.

Clients come to me when they are feeling lost and confused about the direction of their life. I give them the intuitive soul guidance and direction they need to move forward with their life, with clarity, confidence and a lighter and more peaceful heart.

I’m different to other psychics because I’m not just going to give you some obscure, fluffy information that leaves you going “okay, but what do I even do with that?!” My work involves having a heart-to-heart with your soul and then lovingly coaching and guiding you through how to manifest what your soul wants for you. That means you leave with practical steps forward and way more confidence!

I’m a big advocate for the fact that we can all develop our psychic abilities, not exclusive to the few people “gifted” from birth. Everything I do is underpinned by the values of operating with the utmost integrity, creating a sacred, safe, non judgemental space to help my clients and to always be authentic self.

Monthly and Daily insights just like the above are available in my Soul Magic Members Lounge.  Its a great way to connect with me and gain support for you spiritual and mediumship development.

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