Negativity from others is inevitably a painful occurrence that we all deal with in life at some point. Whether it is the relentless and misguided soul crushing objections from family and friends or the more directed specific form of personal attack we see more and more of these days publicly and on social media. No one wants to deal with this kind of challenge or be left with the ongoing effects this kind of negativity can have on you and for a Soulpreneur, it can be devastating to your business, leaving you floundering while trying to overcome these effects.
- Can lead you to burn out emotionally and physically.
- Will compound any lack of self worth.
- Keep you doubting yourself.
- Hinder you from achieving all that you desire.
This video will take you through the 3 steps and how to eliminate soul crushing negativity from others.
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There are however, 3 simple steps you can do to take back your power and own your future.
1. Recognise your Attraction Point.
What it is about you and your energy that contributes to the creation of these events. Often, this is the ego self showing up in life in an effort to keep validating an aspect of who we are. In my own experience, many times in my work as a Mediumship teacher I would experience the judgement of others only to unconsciously take this on and think they must be right. Even though my intentions and behaviours always exhibited respect, truth and integrity – yet I was not being afforded the same in return.
This began to minimise as I improved my self belief and stopped taking full responsbility for every occurrence and eventually seeing that it wasn’t my behaviour that needed changing. Making this change then allows you more objectivity and a greater capacity to see more truth in each situation, giving rise to you acting with increased humbleness instead of mirroring the egoic behaviours. This is without a doubt a much more peaceful place to live from.
2. Know When to Act
Recognise that each and every occurance of conflict and negativity does not require you to act in an effort to counter act or have yourself be heard.
In fact, the more you love yourself the less you are concerned whether someone does hear you or not through the noise of their own ego.
Let most of it go and take action only after you have taken the time to sit with the situation and seek guidance from the inner well of your soul.
3. Take Responsibility for the Energy You Leave Behind
As a Soulpreneur, I assume you work everyday with energy and the Souls of others. This also means you live with a heightened awareness of how each soul contributes to the Oneness and collective energy of this world and it is times like this where we really need to walk our talk.
I urge you to think beyond the usual psychic language of ‘white lighting yourself’, ‘cutting cords’ and so forth. Which in my view are band aid solutions with no personal responsiblity involved. Following Steps 1 and 2 will have foundational effects, leading you to lasting change bringing about a deeper sense of peace and work towards a fullness of your Spirit.
Yet there is one final step which really is for the greater good of all.
Please don’t just return the energy from where it came or leave it out in the ether as is, which can cause more harm when one simple act of greater awareness can quite effectively turn this negative energy into the energy of LOVE. Personally leaving you with a spring in your step and feeling pretty darn good about yourself. A nice alternative to what could have been.
The tip here is to focus on the problem and not the person. What is the underlying cause, the energetic dysfunction and what is it about the situation that has you chomping at the bit to make a difference for others.
Whatever this is, take it and go out and educate!
This blog and the upcoming webinar is me doing just that. Having recently come up against some long standing negative passive aggressive public behaviour, specifically directed at me as a Mediumship coach, I have chosen to leave the passive agressive innuendo to those who have no substance and prefer instead to create an educational forum helping others to overcome similar burdens. Thus transforming the energy I took on and putting it back out into the Universe with Love.
We each have our own unique experiences and understandings that without a doubt others can learn and benefit from. I am sure there are a variety of ways that you can share what it is you are learning from these experiences. It really just begins with looking for the gift in each one.
Do you have a question you’d like answered or if you would like to contact Kerrie, please do so here
Kerrie Wearing is a soul coach, a medium and author of A New Kind of Normal: Unlock the Medium Within and Wisdom of the Soul: How to Live Life Created with Love & inSpiration Made Simple. Kerrie is passionate about helping people to live their Soul Purpose knowing they are One with Spirit and coaching Mediumship practitioners to achieve high levels of integrity, professionalism and accuracy of Mediumship through strong foundations with Spirit.
She is soon to be launching her new online Mediumship Academy and is excited to be working on her third book Wisdom of the Soul: Manifest Your Dreams with Love & inspiration made simple.